Are You a Red, Beige, or Green Flag in Relationships?
By: Ana Rinkevich
Updated: about 2 hours ago
Every relationship has its highs and lows, its charm and its challenges. But when it comes to you, what kind of energy do you bring to the table - passion and chaos, comfort and calm, or trust and growth? Welcome to the quiz that’ll reveal if you’re a Red, Beige, or Green Flag in relationships.
Let’s be honest - the “red flag” label gets thrown around a lot. Maybe you’ve been called one after an argument or a moment of emotional honesty. But being a red flag isn’t always about toxicity - sometimes it’s about intensity, passion, or fear of getting hurt. You might love deeply but struggle with control or communication. You crave connection, but vulnerability feels like walking through fire. You’re not bad - you’re just still learning how to love in a way that doesn’t burn.
If you’re a Beige Flag, you’re the neutral zone - stable, predictable, maybe even a little cautious. You’re not dramatic, but you might hold back too much. You like peace, avoid conflict, and choose comfort over chaos. People feel safe with you, but sometimes, that safety can slip into routine. Love feels soft - but maybe a little too quiet.
Then there’s the Green Flag - emotionally aware, communicative, and kind. You’re the person who listens before reacting, supports your partner’s growth, and holds boundaries with care. You’ve probably done the emotional homework, learned from heartbreak, and understand that love is about balance - giving, receiving, and growing together.
But here’s the truth: most people aren’t just one flag. We’re a mix of colors, constantly shifting as we grow and heal. The red in us shows up when we’re scared, the beige when we’re comfortable, and the green when we’re thriving. This quiz isn’t here to judge you - it’s here to help you see yourself clearly and discover what kind of partner you are right now.
So, are you a storm, a steady sea, or a warm breeze? Answer these questions honestly and find out if you’re waving red, beige, or green in love.
About Ana
Hi, quiz lovers! I'm Ana, and I can't imagine my morning coffee without scrolling new quizzes. So I started writing them. Eleanor Roosevelt once said, "I think, at a child's birth, if a mother could ask a fairy godmother to endow it with the most useful gift, that gift should be curiosity." I'm sure that curiosity is our most powerful tool to learn the world around us and inside us. And quizzes are the most curious way to learn a bit of everything. So don't waste your time. Pick a quiz, and let's find out your today's score!